Men today have porn, OnlyFans, dating apps, and unlimited DMs. More access to women than any generation in history, yet somehow they still can't commit, stay loyal, or feel satisfied.
You'd think all that access would breed appreciation. Instead it bred entitlement. When options feel infinite, nothing feels worth choosing, because there's always a notification, a swipe, a "what if" waiting right behind the woman standing in front of them.
He's not overwhelmed by choice, he's addicted to it. Constantly chasing a dopamine hit instead of building something real, because something real requires effort, patience, and staying power, and none of those exist in an algorithm designed to give him the next best thing in three seconds.
This isn't abundance. It's a trap dressed up as freedom. Men were handed unlimited access and somehow came out the other side less capable of intimacy, not more. They can't sit still long enough to actually know someone because knowing someone was never the goal, access was.
Too much access didn't create fulfilled men. It created men who mistake options for happiness and wonder why they still feel empty with a phone full of them.
(And yes, much of this goes both ways for men and women)