@erax1000 See eh, as i get older I realise more and more that there is no need to argue with people over things that based on the phase of life they are in, they lack the required experience to actually have an informed opinion.
Time is the ultimate teacher.
I got married when both of us were broke. I was also 23 and had been w/him since I was 17. I’m 36 now. If I ever marry again, it would not be to someone who is financially incompatible. IDC how great they are in other areas. It matters equally to me…always did, even while broke.