i just found out about the person who brought that iland photo of jay to the concert, and i just want to make something clear. there are some “jokes” that are just mean and not funny, especially when the person involved said he was clearly uncomfortable with that. it’s so tiring to see how engenes constantly disrespect jay. he’s one of the most respectful and considerate men when it comes to engenes, and it’s so unfair to see that some people can’t give him that same respect in return. instead of listening, they chose to disrespect him once again. i can’t wait for the day engenes truly value him, respect his boundaries, stop mocking him and start actually caring about him.
honestly i just wished people were a bit more kinder to Jay. He’s a guy with boundaries and lets everyone know and yet nobody seems to take him seriously. It’s just fustrating to watch as a fan of him, his feelings matter so much to me but some engenes really don’t seem to care about him😭😭😭😭 a little respect goes a long way, i hope moving foward you guys can let go of that iland picture and truly love and admire the amazing person Jay is. He’s expressed before how uncomfortable that picture makes him. We are not his friends?!!!!! So please just respect his wishes 🥲 please!!!!!!