Well said. The word 'grab them now before you lost the chance' doesn't work for me. I wasn't that desperate to have someone. If they are for me, then they are for me.
While i stick to the opinion of, no matter how long it takes, if they are meant to be together, they won't fall for the second person. I don't care about others who have a crush (used to) on my girl. I will blessing her because that is probably her destiny to be with someone else