My cousin hit me up for some money. I ain't ask no questions I just sent it. Later I found out she lost her job. I figured asking why would've just added to what she was already dealing with. I've never believed in making people jump through hoops for help sometimes preserving someone's dignity is part of the help.
Y’all have to learn to enjoy the moment, every man isn’t your future husband. When it’s done, pack up, say “thanks for the experience”, and keep it cute. No hate needed.