unfortunately to be elite at something you need to be willing to learn, and to be willing to learn you need to want it more than you want to protect your ego
I guess the responsibility of being in a position that requires more is the ability to accept someone’s ignorance and lack of knowledge, you have to hear them out and there judgment and let them vent without giving into your frustration.
Trying to explain something is hard especially when someone hasn’t put the hard work in to see the things your hard work has given you the ability to see.
I guess grace is the answer instead of anger.
Excuse my venting.
Was drinking with some Estate guys yesterday( known them for over 4 years)
So I left my drink and went to urinate, I returned, carried my tumbler to drink, the guys said I should dispose the one on tumbler.
I Asked why, they said it's not advisable that someone might put something inside my drink
I stood up and told them that, if I should follow their line of thought that I am not supposed to be drinking with them in the first place.
That if my drink or belongings are not safe in their midst, then I am in the wrong company.
Called the attendant, paid for what I ordered and left.
This evening, I attended a child dedication party, one of them came and wanted to sit at the table with my family. Told him my 3 year old is sitting there and the table is strictly for my family alone.