We do not dig into people's memories. Memory does not actually convey character; it is situational. What a person is really like, sometimes they are not even aware of it. I am usually too jealous to dig into memories.
@AA_Gabriel1111 That's not the point. People are simply accustomed to and understand those who are close to them. People connect with the heroes who are from their circle, from YouTube, from their planet.
You need advice on how to behave with me and what is appropriate to say to me and what is not. Consult an informed party instead of continuing to argue.