A girl on tik tok just said "I would rather adjust my life to your absence, than adjust my boundaries to accommodate your disrespect" and I think that a lot of people need to take that and really engrave it into their soul.
the rest of this year requires me to put my head down and work because i do indeed owe myself a good life and (un)fortunately, it all depends on how much i’m willing to give to this process of becoming.
I’m not meant to be liked by everyone. And I’m not here to be everyone’s friend. But I am here to be kind, respectful and myself. And if you like it I love it. And if you don’t, move around.
Not everyone deserves access to your garden. And don’t be afraid to uninvite guests who have overstayed their welcome. Your magic and medicine is sacred, Keep refining your energy and who has access to it. unapologetically.
It’s one thing to have friends who love you. It’s another to have friends who love you AND dream big with you. Friends who operate from a mindset of abundance, not scarcity. Friends who feed your big dreams instead of shutting them down. Friends you can grow with! It’s important.
Adulthood means working your job while working on your mental health, while managing relationships, while taking care of your physical health, while supporting your family, while practicing self care, while chasing personal goals, while working.
I highly recommend you find yourself a clingy (healthy) lovey dovey partner who’s super excited about you. Life is too short to spend it with someone who act like showing love is a chore.
some of you are walking love letters, and you don't even realise it. you light up rooms, shift atmospheres, and inspire people just by being you. it's such a precious gift