Many BL actors have spoken up about how characters in a series are different from who they are in real life. Many fans get caught up in fantasy of the series and carry it over into real life. In the series they play a couple but in real life, they're just FRIENDS. Just FRIEND.
Imagine believing they're dating, only to find out that one of them has actually been in a serious relationship with someone else for a long time. I'm just curious, how do you think the fans would react? 🤔
reason why every fandoms are freaking out:
nadech and yaya used to be koojin (on-screen couple). everyone were rooting for them to date each other but both of them denied and said that they were just phi-nong. in this video, yaya said that…
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To everyone who has supported me throughout my journey, thank you from the bottom of my heart. Your love has brought me to where I am today, and I will always be grateful.
Today, I’d like to share something that has been on my mind for a long time.
Over the past few years, a small number of people have directed hate, insults, harassment, and even threats toward me, my family, Tul, and his family. Watching the people we love become targets of that kind of behavior has been devastating.
No one deserves to be judged, harassed, or threatened because of the person they love. While we choose to share parts of our lives, that should never be taken as permission to invade our privacy, spread hate, or wish harm upon us.
Going public with our relationship was a decision we made together. We chose to share it because we love each other, and we simply ask that our decision be respected.
As an actor, I will continue to dedicate myself fully to every role I take on. Some roles may involve romance or close interactions with my fellow actors, and that is simply part of my profession. The characters I play on screen are not a reflection of my personal life, and my work will never change the love and commitment we share. I hope you will continue to support me as an actor and appreciate my work for what it is.
Reading comments hoping for us to break up or celebrating the thought of either of us getting hurt is heartbreaking. We understand that not everyone will agree with every decision we make, but wishing pain on others is never okay.
You don’t have to agree with every decision I make, but I hope you can treat me, our families, and the people we love with the kindness and respect that every person deserves.
While I sincerely hope it never comes to this, any harassment, threats, defamation, doxxing, impersonation, or other unlawful acts will be documented, and we will protect ourselves through the appropriate legal process when necessary.
More than anything, I hope we can move forward with greater understanding, compassion, and respect for one another.
Thank you.
After #MewTul faced harassment simply because Mew acts alongside other actors, he has spoken out publicly to ask for respect.
“Going public with our relationship was a decision we made together because we love each other. As an actor, I will dedicate myself to every role I take on, and some of them may involve romance with other actors. It’s my profession. The characters I play do not reflect my personal life and will never change the love I have for Tul.”