I’m not even joking, Mosalasi Jimoh or Asalatu. Their mothers are the Asalatu Chairlady or some matron and something.
They might not attend regularly, but they try during Ramadan. If you’re beautiful, endowed and well mannered, they’ll introduce you to AbdulSamod ni Amsterdam!
NB: Sha don’t be Ameerah oo 😂
I know you all know that you can block me or mute me if you don’t like me or what I post right? All I’ll say is just do you because people will always talk. I don’t understand how me being happy about my life and marriage is a problem.
a friend shared this Dua to me for Laylatul Qadr and i also want to share with y’all
Ya Allah... I come to You tonight with a heart that is not perfect, with a record that is not clean, with a soul that has wandered too many times. I have disappointed You more than I can count yet you still allow me to reach this night
Do not let me leave it the same. Wash me completely not just from sin, but from the love of sin.
Ya Allah... there are parts of me I don't show anyone. The doubts. The insecurities. The fears about my future. The guilt about my past. You see it all. If I am breaking inside, mend me. If I am lost, guide me. If I am weak, strengthen me. I have no refuge except You.
Ya Allah... if I have grown distant from You, pull me back gently. If my heart has hardened, soften it with Your remembrance. If I have chosen dunya over You too many times, forgive me and realign my priorities. Do not let this world become bigger in my heart than my akhirah.
Ya Allah... forgive me for every prayer I rushed, every blessing I took for granted, every sin I justified, every moment I chose disobedience over gratitude. I am ashamed of my shortcomings, but I am hopeful in Your mercy. You are greater than my worst mistakes.
Ya Allah... if You know that my heart will not survive another year in the same state, then transform me tonight.
Remove from me what is pulling me away from You even if it hurts. Replace it with what will bring me closer to Jannah.
Ya Allah... grant my parents forgiveness that reaches the heavens, health that eases their bodies, and light that fills their graves when they return to You. Make me a source of ongoing reward for them, not a source of regret.
Ya Allah... protect me from a death that comes suddenly while I am heedless. Let my final moments be filled with remembrance, with sincerity, with Your pleasure. Let my last breath carry Your name.
Ya Allah... if tonight is Laylatul Qadr, then write me among those forgiven. Among those freed from the Fire. Among those whose destinies were changed because they cried to You sincerely. Let angels witness my tears and carry my du'as to the heavens.
Ya Allah... I am asking You for Jannah. Not because I deserve it, but because You are Al-Kareem. Save me from the Hellfire, even if my deeds are small. Let Your mercy be greater than my failures.
Ya Allah… when this night ends let me wake up as someone different. Cleaner. Softer. Closer to You. Do not let this be just another Ramadan night I wasted. Let it be the night that changed my eternity.
Ya Allah… if this is the night You descend with mercy, then do not pass me by. Do not let my name be written among the heedless. I am standing at Your door with nothing but hope.
My deeds are small. My sins are many. But my trust in You is greater than all of it. If You forgive me tonight, no one can question it. If You accept me tonight, no one can reject me.
So Ya Allah... look at me with mercy. Look at me with forgiveness. Look at me as a servant who is desperate for You and do not let me leave this night empty.
Wallahi if you choose to sleep with a man before he marries you yet it’s the dead end. You’ve given him what he wanted, you’ve given up yourself to him just like that and trust me if he takes you back and makes it halal that man loves you sis. Most times they only come for that.(to check what’s in between your legs) I won’t even sugarcoat this. That’s why I’ll say don’t sleep with them until he’s made it official. DON’T open up that portal for him unless he earns it! And that’s why we get heartbroken at the end of the day because you’ve opened a sacred door for him. Seggs isn’t just seggs for ladies. It’s giving him access to your body, heart, mind and soul. Be mindful.📌
I did my solat at the office today, for the first time in 5 years. I thought I would be shy but it was very exhilarating. The absolute highlight of my day. I will be doing more of that. Might even leave an hijab at the office.
p.s: I mostly work from home.
Two weeks ago at exactly 5:43pm, I gave birth to the most amazing baby boy ever! His cries brought life back into me and I kept saying Alhamdulillah for the whole 7minutes he cried for.
May Allah continue to make him a source of joy to us and our household 🤲🏾❤️