I like men who are soft with me. Who treat me like I am small and delicate. Who love out loud, & are affectionate & caring. Who pay attention to what I like & want to make me happy. Men who know how to act like a "Man" by providing & protecting. Men who let you be soft feminine.
the older i get, the more I reach the conclusion that most problems within any relationship can be resolved with emotional intelligence and good communication, only if both parties have the same intention: to find solutions.
i hate being around people who lack emotional intelligence and self-regulation. it just irks my soul. if you cannot see things outside of yourself and how you’re harming others, you will never evolve. intention has nothing to do with impact
Having an emotionally mature partner is a blessing. To be able to say "Hey, this bothers me" & seeing the change almost instantaneously is really top tier. Like you heard me, you seen me, you validated me, you fixed the issue, no argument, no drama just pure accountability.
You’ll recognise the gentleness in ppl by how they hold you. How they hold what hurts you without turning it into a reflection of themselves. How they respond when your feelings make things inconvenient. When love isn’t useful to them. That’s when truth speaks.
SOCIAL MEDIA got EEEEERRRRYBODY feeling like they got so many options. YOU DON’T. Pay attention to the people who love, value, and hold you down IN REAL LIFE. The internet might make it look like there’s plenty of fish in the sea, but most of it AIN’T WORTH CATCHING.
No one tells you how hard it is to rewire your brain to allow amazing things to happen after experiencing trauma or pain. Blessings exist, good people exist, and a soft life exists. Let it happen.
I’m not going outside with nobody who doesn’t have money, is in abusive ass relationship, who has a curfew, who loves to fight, and who begs niggas for drinks……. STAY HOME!!!!