Loneliness does not come from having no people about one, but from being unable to communicate the things that seem important to oneself, or from holding certain views which others find inadmissible.
The older you get, the more you realize uncommunicated one-sided beef is not your problem, undiscussed expectations are not your problem, someone disliking you is not your problem, someone not understanding you is not your problem, and what they think of you is not your business.
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I see a lot of social media posts saying your nervous system will be at peace when you’re with the right person.
This isn’t true.
There isn’t a magical person who will keep your nervous system regulated.
Your nervous system will go into fight or flight any time core emotional wounds from childhood are triggered— regardless of who your partner is.
Especially during conflict.
The nervous system is habitual and autonomic. It responds to the subconscious past, not just the person in front of you in the present.
The work is learning how to witness it, cope in healthy ways, and be kind to yourself in the process.
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