Single people should be situationshipmaxxing. Chase tails. Indulge in youthful dalliance. Flirt. Take fun seriously. Take seriousness lightly. Behind all that therapy speak about attachment etc. is fear of Eros, and paradoxically love only finds those who live full heartedly
There is a Japanese legend that says:
“The sun and moon used to love each other, but because of their time differences, they don't meet. So, God created the eclipse for them to meet, so that people would know that there is no impossible love.”