Just a reminder for every baby Domme who’s watching others from the sidelines feeling invisible don’t look up to Dommes who won’t even look your way. If she can’t acknowledge your presence, drop a kind word, or cheer on your growth, then sis… she’s not your inspiration. The Dommes you choose to admire should make you feel seen, not small. The right ones will clap for you when you win, give you advice when you're lost, and remind you that there’s room for all of us to shine. Growth doesn't come from idolizing someone who pretends you're not there. It comes from learning, connecting, and building in spaces where love and support flow both ways. You deserve mentors who don’t gatekeep. You deserve role models who want you to win and most importantly, you deserve to be surrounded by women who remind you that your success isn’t a threat 🩷🥂🫂