Nompumelelo Moyo

Director and Partner at Impiko Projects Pty Ltd, Visionary and counsellor.

[Nompumelelo Moyo @spoonky84]

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[Nompumelelo Moyo @spoonky84]

@be1_gilly @ChrisExcel102 All I can say is Hau🤦

[Nompumelelo Moyo @spoonky84]

@LollyNyama @LadyM1306 Tjooo sthandwa if only you knew, a friend of mine was raped for years by the stepfather. She told her mother and the mother told her not to tell anyone as the man was the breadwinner. They are not on speaking terms with her mom till date as the mother is still with that man

[Nompumelelo Moyo @spoonky84]

@QWezindaba @KayMatlabo @LadyM1306 Exactly, this is information she ought to have shared with police, when seeking every thing is crucial. It can help solve this case

[Nompumelelo Moyo @spoonky84]

@king_webstar @KayMatlabo @LadyM1306 When we were growing up my aunty never used to want girls to be close to the boys or man in the family nor even allow the boys to baby sit or be alone with girl children. We used to think she was just being too much but as I grew up I got to understand why

[Nompumelelo Moyo @spoonky84]

@king_webstar @KayMatlabo @LadyM1306 It's the sad truth we do not want to face or take accountability for. If a person is abusive to you do you think they will care about your children, chances are they will abuse you too. This should be a lesson to us as women to be very careful when it comes to our kids

[Nompumelelo Moyo @spoonky84]

@moneymoiloa @Vhoyde And make a research where the word bastard was derived from, it was meant to degrade people of lower class just as we blacks are seen as lower class citizens by those of different colour.Can you see how messed up you have to be to push an agenda of those who think less of you

[Nompumelelo Moyo @spoonky84]

@moneymoiloa @Vhoyde And did I say it is wrong to be in a family with both parents, it is very much recommended to be in such families. I am talking about people like you who think those raised by single parents are bastards, lesser than you.

[Nompumelelo Moyo @spoonky84]

@moneymoiloa @Vhoyde Your self of importance is all in the head, you might find that you are more miserable than those raised by single parents. You can choose who ever to date without making others seem like they are second rate citizens of the world.

[Nompumelelo Moyo @spoonky84]

@moneymoiloa @Vhoyde Not at all, you can choose not to date baby mamas without shaming the kids. No one has a right to shun anyone. Your case is the same of a racist, you are one of those people who think they are special than others when in actual fact you are just the same as everyone

[Nompumelelo Moyo @spoonky84]

@Gomo_M_ True that, i am a stay at home studying mom and the way I get so exhausted from studying. I think it's tripple times worse for you guys who are working. I pray that all studying whilst working people pass with flying colours in whatever they are studying for.🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[Nompumelelo Moyo @spoonky84]

@21Servant @moneymoiloa @Vhoyde And if a man or woman dumps you or thinks you are not their marriage type it does not make you less of a person. Take time to heal before moving on, don't rush in dating again and don't harbour any hatred for them. Mistakes are lessons to be learnt from and move from.

[Nompumelelo Moyo @spoonky84]

@21Servant @moneymoiloa @Vhoyde Yes dear, no one should crucify you for your preference. And yes it does not mean you not choosing to date a baby mama you then have to shame them. All of us have a right to choose what we feel, think is good for us

[Nompumelelo Moyo @spoonky84]

@21Servant @moneymoiloa @Vhoyde It's sad that all blame is put on the mother and the fathers who make those kids are excused. No person who loves themselves would sleep with a "loose" person as he calls single mothers. And to actually leasen a child to a bastard is pure evil

[Nompumelelo Moyo @spoonky84]

@moneymoiloa @Vhoyde In your case you feel that by calling those kids bastards makes you better, my advice to you is seek help for whatever broke you. Shaming others will not change whatever happened to you. It will never go away until you face it/acknowledge it. Those kids are equals to you too

[Nompumelelo Moyo @spoonky84]

@moneymoiloa @Vhoyde Then let me ask you this, at which point did you learn how to bastardise children if you grew up in a happy loving family. It's either you experienced it or inherited it from some hurt person. No happy person can ever shame another, Never

[Nompumelelo Moyo @spoonky84]

@moneymoiloa @Vhoyde The painful thing is that those "bastard children" as you call them did not choose to be "bastards". What I notice is that broken, never loved, previously shamed people will subject other people to shame trying to appease/hide their own brokenness.

[Nompumelelo Moyo @spoonky84]

@Sibonelo_Mbeje @Vhoyde It depends, some people have mature, beautiful relationships with their exes. Both parties priorities are the child/children so they put their differences aside, work together for the sake of their offspring/s. You can wonderfully raise kids even when separated.

[Nompumelelo Moyo @spoonky84]

@moneymoiloa @Vhoyde Ohh well dear, each and everyone chooses what is good for them. We all have our preferences. There are some who will choose a woman with kids, love those kids like their own and live happily ever after. As I said it's not one size fits all