Fister, fistee, both. An interview.
How did you get into fisting?
Ever since I was a teenager watching gay porn, I was drawn to the look of loose, gaping holes. I kept wondering how guys achieved that during sex. Looking for answers led me straight to fisting porn. I was so fascinated by what I saw that at 22, I bought my first anal plug. A few months later, I found my first buddy who promised to teach me how to take a fist.
What do you wish someone had told you at the start?
In my first few years, no one ever mentioned that my struggle with depth wasn't due to a lack of ability, but simply a lack of proper training. I just needed more patience, both my own and the fister's, softer toys, and a lot of determination. For years I didn't even try going deep because fister after fister kept telling me, "Your hole is too shallow, it's impossible to go deeper." I took that as a given and stopped looking for solutions, which looking back was a huge mistake.
Fister, fistee or both?
Total vers. I love the shape, form and texture of a loose hole. I adore feeling inside and experiencing my partner's reactions just as much as I love being fisted, opened up and punched. I absolutely love both sides.
One thing you'd tell someone just starting out?
Fisting offers a level of pleasure that no other type of sex can match. That said, pay close attention to who your first partner is, and make sure you're learning to get a fist from someone who is thoughtful and highly experienced. Knowing the etiquette and hygiene rules is absolutely key.
Biggest passion besides fisting?
Bodybuilding, hands down. Just as an amateur, but I've always been into it, both as a non sexual fitness activity and as a fetish ๐
Where are you based, and what's the scene like there?
Poland. To be honest, it's almost non existent here. We have plenty of great, experienced guys in the major cities, but actual fisting events are basically unheard of. I can only recall two in our country's history, both at a popular cruising bar in Warsaw, and during the last one a close friend and I put on a fisting performance. Things are slowly changing, and I'm proud to say I've played a small part in that.
Best fisting event on the continent?
Without a doubt, the dedicated fisting area during the night events at Darklands in Antwerp. The sheer scale of it and the number of guys fisting simultaneously completely blew my mind the first time I saw it.
The sneakermask, is it custom made?
Handcrafted by @albinohector. He does fantastic work, his masks are total head turners and, surprisingly, pretty comfortable ๐