@alpharivelino What on earth are you talking about. I’m not ‘protecting my ego’ Jesus 😂 I’ve been an adult for 20 years and not 1 woman has ever rejected me on the basis of not having a hobby deemed sexy. Completely invented concept you could only find on Twitter.
You reduced a highly complex topic such as dating down to a “sexy hobby”, which by default is subjective, otherwise every man would to the same singular activity/hobby with the aim of being attractive.
Taking up a hobby specifically to attract women is a fools game. If women overnight deemed that hobby suddenly unsexy, you’d no longer be interested in it and thus wholly inauthentic.
@alpharivelino You’re saying that by default two men doing the same hobby will be deemed equally attractive by nature of said hobby. Absolute rubbish anon
Once I had a quiet bar shift so could hear the date across the bar, girl said she “needs to be on the train by 10”. They left & he walked her to the station. She came back by 10.30, sat at the bar, spoke to me for a bit then got hit on and taken home by this charismatic French guy…
This is so true and I’ve seen this in Lyon with the Americans there. So exhausting
Can’t just go sit by the river with a bottle of rosé cos you like their vibe and see what happened or cos the weather was nice and neither of you had plans
Had to be defined or “ok…but just so we’re clear I’m not sleep-
“It’s fine Constance is coming instead”
😂
Sex is the one thing that differentiates people from being in a relationship or not. Not mentioning it whilst talking about divorce is not mentioning the elephant in the room. It’s one of the first questions divorce lawyers ask, “were you having sexual relations?”, not “did he express love”. Actions speak louder than words.
Any sane person without an agenda will tell you that if a man or woman is not sexually satisfied in a relationship they will (if they are capable) seek it out elsewhere
If women do that “he wasn’t doing something right”
If men do that “he’s an asshole”