This is a reminder that ableism can lead to suicide. The societal messaging that disabled people get telling us that we're less than have a really, REALLY deep impact on us. He was also one of the first prominent actors to actually have a physical disability. RIP RJ.
@wlwrexia Idk I just think people who have had EDs or dealt with these types of men can pick up on the odd ways they interact with thin women beyond them just being attracted to their gfs body. Ive had ana and binge ed at different points in my life and it’s too easy to spot now… :/
@wlwrexia I don’t think ppl understand what you meant because yes he should be attracted to his gf there’s nothing wrong with that!! It’s in the way he’s positioning her and bodychecking her and purposely trying to emphasize how tiny she is compared to him. SHE isn’t the issue at all
I hate noise cancelling headphones because it makes every song have a part that sounds like various family members screaming for help as they’re brutalized by an intruder while I sit in my room unaware
Dbt changed my life but no matter how many coping skills or how much logic I apply to my situation, once the false idea of someone I love hating me gets planted in my head all of a sudden I convince myself I have to die and all I can do is allow myself to feel that pain
STEPS BEFORE GETTING A RAPE KIT:
1. avoid cleaning things up. Showering, brushing teeth, combing hair can remove DNA of the perpetrator.
2. Take pictures of everything: injuries, the room, everything that could be used as evidence.
3. try not to use the restroom; urine can have traces of potential drugs. If you have to, keep it in a dark container (away from sunlight) before you go to the hospital.
4. If you are changing your clothes, keep them in a paper/fabric bag (NOT PLASTIC) and away from sunlight.
5. You may refuse any part of the testing at any point. It is a time-consuming, invasive process.
6. Bring someone with you, you should not have to go through it alone.
This is what trafficking can look like.
If you are ever invited to just "hang out" or to a "party" but when you get there the vibe is off and there are barely any girls but lots of men,
GET OUT! & if you're with a friend who doesn't recognize the danger, plz get them out.
CW NSFW
also medical grade silicone and dildos. i am not joking. a paraplegic man wanted his sex life back so he made it happen and now we ALLLLLL benefit baby