Most marriage problems don’t suddenly appear overnight. They often begin as “small issues” that get repeatedly ignored until they become impossible to hide.
But there’s another red flag worth discussing: turning every relationship disagreement into public content and asking strangers online to referee it.
Social media can give you opinions, but it rarely gives you context. If the matter can be handled privately, through honest communication, trusted counsel, or a faith leader you genuinely trust, why turn it into a public trial?
Not every problem needs an audience. Some need wisdom
“Men no longer like broke girls. Even if you’re fine and all, once they see you’re broke, they won’t want you in their circle or even ask you out. It’s not like they need your money or anything but they just don’t want broke girls around them”