One of the things that allows people to thrive in life is having fewer responsibilities.
Two people can start out at the same time, equally talented, doing the same business, but watch how differently their lives can turn out.
One person has to take care of their parents, siblings, friends and other family members, while the other has no such financial responsibilities because their family can take care of themselves. Naturally, their trajectories will be different.
Sometimes, it’s not that one person is more hardworking, more intelligent or more talented than the other. One person simply has more room to focus on building their life, while the other is constantly trying to build theirs and carry other people along at the same time.
This is one of the things that holds a lot of young adults back. Sometimes, what you need to thrive isn’t more motivation or hard work. It’s fewer responsibilities and the freedom to focus on yourself for once.
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2. Argentine players won't have played so aggressively, you show zero zeal for something you're told not to win
3. 6 yellows cards? C'mon
Don't be a sore loser
Today is another opportunity to begin again, not because everything is perfect, but because progress is built from ordinary mornings that become extraordinary through consistency.
The strongest people are not the ones who never get tired. They are the ones who keep going despite the tiredness. They are the ones who choose discipline over mood, action over hesitation, purpose over distraction.
Have the courage to move forward, the wisdom to learn from the past, and the determination to never stop believing in what is possible.
When you were in primary 5, they told you that common entrance was hard. But when you got the opportunity, you wrote it and there was nothing there.
You entered JSS 1 and JSS3 students were making Junior WAEC look like rocket science. You entered JSS 3 and you took the exam. There was nothing there.
In SS 2, SS3 students made WAEC and JAMB look like rocket science. But you got to SS3, took it and passed.
They made University look like rocket science but you entered and passed the exams. Nothing there. They made Medical and Law school look like wall of Jericho. You got there and took it and passed.
People will always try to scare you with what you’ve not attempted. There is nothing there. You just haven’t attempted it. It is not because things are impossible that we do not dare, it is because we do not dare that things are impossible.
Your boyfriend changed your phone, you didn’t reciprocate it.
Your boyfriend bought car for you, you didn’t reciprocate it.
Your boyfriend bought luxury hairs for you, you don’t reciprocate it,
But the moment it comes to cheating, smoking and other immoral behaviors, you want to reciprocate.
I hope you can now see how d^mb some women are?
Just look at life..
- To the wife, her husband is being sweet
- To other Women, the gesture is a hinderance
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Now let’s flip!
If it’s a case where the wife asks her husband first before going ahead with a deal
Then it’s no longer a sweet gesture.. The husband is ‘controlling’ and trying to dim his wife’s light.
And it’s the same across board!
That’s why I say..
That huge thing you’re doing for your Mum, if you start doing it for your Wife, automatically “your Wife has started using your head”
That huge thing you’re doing for your Wife, once you start doing it for your Mum, “His Mother is controlling him”.
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For Women, it’s mainly a battle of “who can use the Men around them to their selfish advantage the most”
It’s only a sweet gesture when done to them, extend the gestures and you become foolish or the other Women are manipulating you.
Also..
What a Man wants in his Woman, he wants for his sisters and daughters too
But what a Woman wants in her Man, she doesn’t want for her brother and son.
See… I can never believe Women are inherently ‘good people’ compared to Men.
They’re way too self-centered to be reasonable.. But play victim at every slight chance they get.
"While you’re out here monetizing mediocrity and calling it feminism, some of us have jobs, self-respect, and the ability to call an Uber without starting a GoFundMe.
I’d take you more seriously, but it’s hard to respect financial advice from someone who needs a sponsor just to leave her house."
The kneeling of a Father 😭😭
It is a shallow mindset. I used to be like that when I was a kid. My step uncle was a very practicing muslim and I decided to pray more like him. He fell sick and had appendicitis surgery. Few months later, within same year, I also fell sick and had same surgery. So, in my mind, I was just saying even my dad that doesn’t pray and eats whatever he likes doesn’t have bad appendix, why is it now us that chose to worship God more???
Growing up I now realized that Allah will bless whomever He pleases on this earth and Allah would even test more the faith of those that worship Him more.
So, the fact that you pray the most doesn’t mean you will get everything you want on this earth than others that don’t pray.
Prayers are answered three ways.
1. Your wishes are granted immediately you asked for them.
2. Your wishes are not granted now but later in the distant future when you don’t expect it and it may most likely be way better for you then than now.
3. Your wishes are not granted but because you made that prayer, something bad that ought to had happened to you in this life has been prevented from happening to you. You may or may not know.
Keep praying but don’t ever regret praying because you think your prayers are not answered.
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