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[Solyricon @Solyricon]

His mother and father may have traumatized him as a child, & that is so sad .
BUT he is now a grown man who is actively CHOOSING to punish you for HIS pain instead of healing his own trauma .
Now read that again

[ᴀᴛᴜғᴀ @atufaishere]

Telling a woman you love her while treating her like shit is mental abuse.

[​𝐥𝐲𝐫𝐚 @sunnkssdseraph]

According to psychology. when someone knows they treated you wrong, they avoid you. It's called guilty conscience. They don't have the maturity to apologize for their disrespectful actions, and since they lack accountability, they simply remove themselves from your life.

[jezz @JezziiB]

“Men suffer in silence."

No, they don’t. They treat everyone around them like dogshit.

They externalize their feelings onto the women closest to them, usually.

[FreeGameDolly☕️ @dirathedoll]

I just dont care to be super understanding to no man. Its not my ministry. Men truly feel like their needs and wants should overshadow yours. & what they go through should be an excuse for how they act to you.

[​𝐥𝐲𝐫𝐚 @sunnkssdseraph]

Tolerating always turns to resentment. At first, you call it patience, then love. But what it really is, is self-abandonment. Every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score. Likes And eventually, the bill comes due.

[Àgbà John Doe (back up) @jon_d_doee]

As a man,

Before you decide to marry a wife, please try to loosen the grip your mother holds on you.

Let your mother know where your priority would lie, and stand by it.

Your mother is your father's wife.

Respect & honor her, but protect your wife from her and vice versa.

Your matrimonial home is your wife's territory.

If you don't loosen the grip, your mother will encroach on it.

AJD.

[🎀 @lilmissnothoein]

One thing I am starting to realize is that people will handle you a certain way because "It's you". They wouldn't do other people that way. But because "it's you", you'll be okay.. & they think you won't notice lol. Like that's a boundary I'm about to start setting. You not gon treat me any way just because

[Squishy ⏺️ DREAMCON ☁️ @_missprettylady]

“If you love me, consider me in your choices not your apologies.”

[Hadi @lolnvmtho]

I’m forever a ‘you could’ve just told me’ kind of person. I can handle the truth. I can’t handle being lied to.

[Solyricon @Solyricon]

If he hates his life, he’ll drain yours. If he doesn’t love himself, he’ll resent you for trying to love him. A man who’s not at peace internally cannot love you properly.

[cοcσα @shawtie_e]

Nothing annoys me more than someone trying to have a casual conversation with me when they owe me an apology.

[masha @masha_slp]

so i’m not allowed to get angry, but everyone else is allowed to do things they know will make me angry and then make excuses for it? lmao

[Mitchelle Karoro @KaroroMitchelle]

Unfortunately, you have to learn to stop talking to someone. You will cry, your chest will hurt, you will nearly go crazy. But you will not d!£

[miia @miiagarro]

“fuck it we ball” (malnourished, heavy eye bags, dehydrated and on the verge of insanity)

[Nini Dol @NiniDol_]

I'm disgustingly self aware… There's nothing you can tell me that I haven't spent weeks reflecting on.

[midnightsage. @Odogwunwanyii]

Whatever you do, please do not underestimate my ability to not speak to you again.

[Raven Lovette 🫧 @heyhoneyrae]

wanting a woman to be your peace while you make her anxious is evil.

[Ari🪷 @arikoyarii]

Do you ever sit back and realize you're not anybody's favourite person, you're just kinda there and then you get the sudden urge to distance yourself from everyone and chill alone

[‏ً @omgsidewalks]

i actually tolerate people and things until i'm very much resentful towards them