Je croyais que la communication était la base de tout mais au final, c’est la compréhension qui compte parce que vous pouvez dire tout ce que vous voulez si quelqu’un ne veut pas comprendre, ce sera toujours le chaos.
Porque el amor de mi vida nunca me hubiera dejado llorando con todo el amor en las manos y mucho menos hubiera actuado como si dejara de quererme de la noche a la mañana
BREAKUPS HURT.
But you know what hurts more, begging someone to make it work when they’ve already shown you, over and over, that your feelings don’t matter to them. Losing them hurts. Losing yourself trying to keep them hurts more.
Allah peut vous enlever quelqu'un que vous n'auriez jamais imaginé perdre. Allah peut aussi le remplacer par quelqu'un que vous n'auriez jamais imaginé avoir
Nobody apologizes anymore, They just disappear and call it moving on. Accountability died somewhere between pride and ego. People would rather lose someone than admit they were wrong.
We've normalized walking away instead of working through it. Communication became optional, ghosting became the standard response to discomfort. Even closure isn't guaranteed anymore, people just leave you with questions and call it self care. Growth without honesty isn't growth, it's just avoidance wearing a better outfit.
Everyone says “go no contact,” “time will heal,” and “focus on yourself,” but no one tells you what to do at 3:15 am when your chest hurts and you miss them more than ever.
If you constantly wish your man was different, leave him. Not because people can’t grow or change, but because you shouldn’t have to spend your relationship trying to turn someone into the person you wish they were. If you’re constantly wishing he communicated better, treated you with more consideration or loved you in a way that actually feels good to you, pay attention to that. You can love someone and still recognise that who they are today isn’t who you want to build a life with. Stop falling in love with someone’s potential while resenting their reality. You deserve to choose a person you genuinely accept. Not someone you’re constantly hoping will become different.
El trauma del abandono es cruel porque, aunque esté con alguien increíble o en una gran amistad, solo pienso que se van a cansar de mí. Es como vivir en alerta todo el tiempo y no poder disfrutar de nada.
On n'est pas sûr de se marier, avoir un travail, fonder une famille, se lever demain. Mais on prépare tous nos projets. La seule chose dont on est sûr est qu'on va rencontrer la mort mais on ne la prépare pas
Qu'Allah nous pardonne et nous guide