As an actual lesbian, what I do when I am bored;
- play with my cat
- play videogames
- draw or paint
- go on a walk
- tidy my appartment
- literally anything else than sleeping with a man, bc that would be absolutely repulsive to me 😶
I honestly don't understand how you can't see the problem in dividing lesbians into butch and femme, taking on the images of a stereotypical man and a stereotypical woman.
I can build muscle or hide my breasts and walk around in "masculine" looks, I can do "masculine" things, I can have "masculine" mannerisms, but that never makes me NOT a "feminine" woman, it makes me ME. I'm just that kind of woman and I'm not feminine or masculine, I'm just me