Stacey Savant

A rockstar in my heart...

[꧁༒☬ 𝔾𝕒𝕓𝕣𝕚𝕖𝕝 ☬༒꧂ @Gabbrielxzn]

If they painted you as the villain, congratulations. You've defeated the narcissist

[Stacey Savant @ssb73]

@Dearme2_ Get a therapist

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@ThatEricAlper @rickspringfield

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@Erva_00_1 Her life

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There appears to be 2 mil @ThisIsRobThomas on TT & they all want to follow me

[The_Narc_Decoder @NarcDecoder]

A narcissist never fully recovers from losing a super empath.

Because they lost someone who kept loving them while ignoring their own pain.
Both have the same childhood wounds.
Both felt neglected and abandoned.

One learned to survive by over-loving, over-giving...
the other by shutting down.
The empath sees the pain beneath the narcissist's mask... and stays.
That's why this connection can feel deeper than love and harder to break. I's beyond trauma bonding.

The super empath sees the wounds beneath the narcissist's mask.
The insecurity. The pain. The wounded child hiding behind control, anger or charm.
And instead of leaving... they stay, love harder, forgives more and understands deeper.
That's what makes the connection so powerful. For the first time, the narcissist feels seen beyond the mask... and not rejected.

Other people may give the narcissist attention... but few can offer the depth, understanding and unconditional love a super empath gives.
The super empath didn't just love the mask.
They loved what was hiding underneath.

But the tragedy is:

The super empath loses themselves in the process.
Their compassion becomes self abandonment.
Their patience becomes toxic tolerance.
And while the narcissist is being saved... the super empath slowly breaks.

Eventually the super empath reaches a breaking point.
Not because they stopped loving the narcissist...
but because they realise love cannot heal someone who refuses to face their own wounds.
That is the final heartbreak.

The super empath walks away to save themselves.
And the narcissist loses the one person who saw beyond the mask... and stayed.

If this hit home, then you need to hear this: it's time to stop trying to save the person who is hurting you and start saving yourself.

#narcissists #traumabond #soulties

[Stacey Savant @ssb73]

@omgsidewalks Yep

[Nancy Burns Counseling @helpyouhealnow]

A narcissist is:
A victim of everything,
responsible for nothing,
offended by everything,
contributing nothing,
yet entitled to everything.

- Libriscent

[Stacey Savant @ssb73]

@pbcgov good morning to everyone but Det Potter who didn’t believe a woman who came in beaten!

[Stacey Savant @ssb73]

I wish they would stop acting like Kyle & Dorit were BFFS #rhobh

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@soigomaa Same here.

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@symeew13 Vixen

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@ThatEricAlper And the festival in TN with Rick Springfield

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@ThatEricAlper I’m traveling to see @lilyallen

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@ThrillaRilla369 Yep

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Bravo - please stop trying to make Dorit happen #rhobh

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@TheRHPolls I would love for this to be true I liked her

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@Stormi_luv 2020