You’re not neurodivergent. You’re weird in average ways. Your health problems are not from trauma. You have not overcome narcissists. Those were just jerks. You are not cutting toxic people out of your life. Those were just people who didn’t like you as much as you hoped.
"Good girl" conditioning has us believing our role is: to get other people to like or approve of us in social settings, to not "rock the boat", and to betray our own needs in order to appear selfless.
HERE'S HOW TO UNLEARN IT:
Constantly amazed by the number of men that walk around the city with no bags. Just going to work raw. Walking out the door with no emergency tissue or painkillers. Just them and their hands in their pockets against the world