I sat & watched everybody pick who they wanted to over me, & I still remained the same simply because I knew when I started picking ME over EVERYTHING it was a wrap! You gotta leave people to the one's they think so highly of 😮💨‼️
My mental health come before anything. I’m hangin up phones, declining calls, falling back from friendships and relationships. Whatever I gotta do. If it messes with my peace or got my mind feeling off, I’m out. I’m takin care of me first and I hope you on the same type of time.
If I’m being honest, I don’t know how to show up the same way a second time.If you hurt me in any way friendship or romantic relationship . I will heal from it, and I’ll most likely forgive you.But the version of me you hurt… the one who showed up with no doubts,
People love the idea of me… the vibe, the energy, the way I show up. But when it’s time to be intentional, consistent, and actually meet me where I am… they don’t know what to do with me.
Btw you have every right to call me out as a friend if you don't feel loved or cared for by me, it's not entitlement, I owe it to you, that's what I signed up for when we started our friendship.
Having solid friends matters. I don't mean the ones who just hype your pics or drop heart emojis. I'm talking about the people who show up when things get awkward, heavy, and uncomfortable. The friends who don't disappear when life gets messy, who sit with you through the rough moments, tell you the truth, and stay even when it's not fun or convenient. That's real friendship.