Waktu kelas 1 punya temen (co) pacaran sama kakel (ce) kelas 3. Kita cowo" biasa nongkrong di wc belakang sekolah rame-rame.
Suatu hari lagi nongkrong, pacarnya datengin tempat kita nongkrong, baru datang tanpa babibu langsung cip*kan depan semua orang. Jantung gua mau copot..
The most exhausting, unspoken burden on men in modern dating is that they are expected to be the sole architects of the relationship. A man is expected to initiate the first text, plan the dates, fund the experiences, orchestrate the proposal, and constantly drive the romance forward. We have completely normalized a culture where a woman’s mere presence is considered her "effort." The absolute second a man gets tired of being the only engine keeping the relationship moving and asks for equal romantic effort, he is instantly accused of being "inconsistent" or "low effort." We demand 50/50 modern equality, but aggressively enforce traditional male burdens the exact moment romance is involved.
wkwkwkwkwk cewe bingung emang bikin puyeng, gapunya hobi, gapunya minat, gatau value apa yang dia punya, gatau apa yang mau dikejar. Bisanya cuma ngandelin standar sosmed, padahal dirinya gapunya value apa apa dan bisanya cuma menghibur diri dengan "if he want, he would"
serius nanya
if men should pay these much for first date, men should provide all in the first date, men should be chivalrous in the first date.
what women SHOULD do in the first date? (stop bilang “treat lakinya with kindness, respect and love”. itu mah laki juga udah lakuin)