i think a constant theme in my life is to be more self-centered. every time I don’t put pouring into me first I’m shown why that was an awful decision.
people don’t even mad at you fr they just want you to apologize and take accountability and maybe even give them a hug. conversation can fix so many things. it’s that pride shit that keeps people apart.
I'm not toxic. I'm reactive. There's a person somewhere calling me difficult, and they're leaving out the part where they pushed every boundary I set, ignored every signal I gave, and then acted shocked when I finally stopped being gentle about it.