@Ryan_Daigler Sometimes you ask and they cover for them, and have already taken sides in lies and deceit for they to are part of the sick things that go on.
They leave you messages like this here and there, so you'll see them.. all the while behind your back committing acts of every defilement to you and themselves.
They give you small gifts and letters here and there in the places you may look while your out and working or living ... All while committing every act of defilement to you and themselves.
@lyraxanderson Depends on whom you're having sex with... How many demons are moving through the act?
I know I for one am not taking on or accepting any spirits that have moved upon me.
A narcissist won't admit they're wrong.They just flip it on u & play the victim
When u ask them why their actions don't match their words,they become silent or manipulative
Never defend urself to them. They know you're right, but they want to watch you go crazy trying to prove it
Jesus, seems shameful that you do everything for yourself, still miss the things Men should have when they've worked 84 hours in 7 days.
No smile and hugs, no one to call and say I love you. when they did, it was all for show - while you worked they were having orgies, cursing u
Narcissists have a profound (and dangerous) pathological resistance to taking accountability — as if a moment of honesty would be like handing over their very life, or walking off a cliff.
This is important to understand because it is this impossible resistance to accountability and self-honesty that drives them to adapt and develop numerous manipulation and abuse tactics to defend it.
You DO NOT have to respect ANYONE who chooses to disrespect, mistreat, or abuse you in any manner. You do not owe a TOXIC person who has INTENTIONALLY said and done things to hurt you, any sort of kindness, compassion, or empathy. If they are treating you in an unkind manner first, then they shouldn't get mad when you stand up for yourself, or perhaps say something offensive in response to all the things they said to you first. Let them be mad when you assert yourself, set boundaries, and walk away.
When adult scapegoats start breaking through the gaslighting and finally see the full picture of what was done to them, there’s an anger that hits that is unlike anything else.
Not the anger we felt as children — we knew that. This is different. This is the anger of finally understanding the scale of it. The premeditation behind it. The years of deliberate, calculated abuse carried out by the two people on earth who were supposed to protect them.
You knew it was bad. You lived it. But there’s a point in the awakening where you stop seeing individual incidents and start seeing and feeling the whole architecture — and the full criminal weight of it lands all at once.
That anger is not a symptom. It’s not instability. It’s the correct emotional response to what actually happened to you.