One of the first things I tell new partners is they are never allowed to swear at me, yell at me, or be mean to me. They will get one warning and then they’re cut from the team. Life is simply too short to be metabolizing intentional hurt from people who allegedly love you!!
Don't make finding love your priority. Make Christ your priority, and trust Him with your love story. He will make it more beautiful than you ever imagined.
You can tell a lot about a person by what they do after hurting you. Some apologize. Some reflect. Some change. And some will rewrite the entire story in their head just to avoid feeling guilty. Accountability is rare because protecting the ego is easier than becoming better.
A man who lies can’t lead. A man who cheats can’t lead. A man who never takes accountability can’t lead. A man who lets pride, anger, and ego control his decisions can’t lead either. Leadership starts with character. If a man can’t be honest, disciplined, responsible, and respectful, he has no business expecting anyone to trust him with a household.
I need the girls to get DISGUSTED by a man never buying flowers, planning dates, building a bond, investing in & pouring love + effort into a good hearted woman that deserves it. GET DISGUSTED.