Context matters.
The point I'm making with saying men and women are not equal in a marriage is that you all have different roles to play.
In any group there is a leader.
The man leads and the woman follow in support.
Yes your wife should complement you and make things smooth for you. That's the support role while lead her right.
This is not to lessen her value or make it a master-servant type of relationship.
Every team has a captain.
Some one bares the responsibility to lead and the other support.
More like a vice to a president/ chairman.
A woman is not designed to shoulder the burden of leadership cause it end up breaking their maternal instincts that keeps them feminine.
Feminization of men has made you all forget you have different roles to play in a marriage.
I have a loving wife ๐
If you both work and foot the bill together it's fine.
Doesn't mean you are equal to him.
He leads while you follow.
Not being equal to him is not meant to lessen your values, it's basically a chain of commands and how instructions and plans are being discussed and carried out.
He leads and you follow doesn't make you less important, just know your role and do it to the max.
Knowing you are meant to support him while he leads is the key.
This is not meant to lessen your value to that of a maid.
More like a vice to a president, without you he is definitely gonna fall apart.
Understanding this dynamics build stronger and healthier relationship instead of a mindless struggle for power.
Y'all want to lead in a marriage which will only lead to chaos.
It's just that simple.
@LilyKittyCat09@_bybenigna There is a reason condoms exists.
Unless you ready for the consequences if not close those legs even in commited relationship.
Protect yourselves.
A lot of these abortion are from casual sex.
People mostly get married to start a family with children.
But if y'all don't want children yet then it's a discussion between you guys on the steps to take as a family not advice from random internet people that don't give a damn about you.
@Sativa_sw33t@ZainabSana2622 Poisoning is not the only way women execute murder.
The point am making is that they still find way to commit this crime as much as men but in a different manner..
So bringing violent crime stats to condemn men is the most out of touch thing you can do.
The context is physical violent crimes.
The only reason women don't dominate is because they are physically weaker than men.
Women dominate in none physical violent up to 90%.
If a man would stab you, a woman will poison you.
Same murder, different methods.
Evil has no gender and humans are inherently evil.
If you understand the female psychology you won't blame these rabid feminist.
People like you without any iota of reasoning or thinking outside the box are why we are here now.
Men dominate and lead by taking responsibilities, setting good examples and making the tough decisions and when these are archived women tends to naturally sit in place and florish in their femininity.
Yes a man has every right to control his wife and the wife also controls the man.
But bitter rabid people like you don't understand what relationship truely is.
Men being emotional is not same as women being emotional.
Remember context is key.
They context for women being too emotional is "decision making" and this is not same for men.
Women are geared towards making decisions based off of emotions and feel good feelings.
@DaizyZeeX Men being emotional is not same as women being emotional.
Remember context is key.
They context for women being too emotional is "decision making" and this is not same for men.
Women are geared towards making decisions based off of emotions and feel good feelings
@V1vy_L0ve@ZainabSana2622 No..it's a problem because men forgot how to be men and actually put you all in your places.
I love women.
They are the punishment God gave men for being weak.
@kerbeeDia@Kemariemoss@Ony1nyechi All women self destruct.
It's an innate tendency.
It just takes strong masculinity to check that tendencies.
You know nothing of women psychology.
Give it a rest.