Lately I've been realising how much pressure I put on myself to have my future sorted out. I look around and it feels like everyone else has some kind of direction, and here I am trying to convince myself that I'm not falling behind just because I don't have all the answers yet. Some days I worry I'm choosing wrong, some days I worry I'm not choosing at all. And the hardest part is pretending I'm confident when I'm really just hoping I don't disappoint the people who believe in me. I wish it wasn't this heavy, but it is…😔
it is an unwritten rule of life that after every prolonged period of hardship and uncertainty, there is going to be a period when you are going to achieve quantum leaps across multiple areas of your life. the only requirement is that you do not give up on yourself.
"To all married men, don't ever k!l1 yourself trying to please a woman. I'm a woman speaking to you, and there is nobody who can please a woman to the fullest. God gave us natural nails, we cut them and put on artificial ones. He gave us natural hair, we remove it and wear wigs. If God cannot please us completely, who are you to think you can?"
— Woman advises men.
Steve Harvey explains why you'll never find him at a party
"You don't see me nowhere, you don't see me and I put my brand different, I'm not going to your party"
"I don't go to the white party, the blue party, the pink party, the penny party, I ain't at nobody's party"
"Steve Harvey going home"
"You can't take my picture if I'm at home, can't put me on TMZ if I'm at home"
"I go home my wife don't have to wonder where I am, you know I spent the night in Dubai last night so I get up and do your show and be on time add more traffic"
"And so you know we talked last night, she called me this morning when she wake up but she's early rise she get up at 4:30 in the morning"
"I'm up, I'm sitting on the balcony having coffee"
"My wife don't have to look for me. I'm her husband and she don't have to look for me.
"If I have to spend the night somewhere she can call me she ain't got worry about nothing I try to erase as much trick stuff out my life as I can"
The honest truth is no one really cares about what you go through trying to put food on the table,so when life makes sense don’t waste your energy trying to prove to strangers that life is good to you.
Stop sending long paragraphs & messages explaining how you feel, just don't say anything. I've learned that it doesn't matter what you say, if they don't care they just don't. And nothing you say will change that. Stop wasting your time & energy.
Ten lazy years can disappear the moment you lock in. Six months of discipline can erase a decade of drifting. Momentum is magic. It turns yesterday's failures into tomorrow's fuel.
Wise men spend their time perfecting their gardens so they don’t waste time chasing butterflies.
When butterflies see a beautiful garden, they can’t help but come closer. even if they ignore the garden, the man is still left with something beautiful he built for himself. 💪🏿❤️
Bro to bro: Start thinking of your future very seriously. Be overly curious, accept you know very little, be selfish to learn new stuff & don’t get into stupid office politics. The world is very cruel to people who are not doing new things everyday. You will become irrelevant.
A friend once gave me $1000 so I could help him buy an iPhone 14 Pro Max. Next morning he came excited asking for his phone and I told him, “There’s no iPhone coming… this is now your deposit for your first car.” 😂
Guy thought I had lost my mind. Said I wasn’t his father and accused me of using his money for other things.
I told him to come to my workplace during lunch. When he arrived, I called him into the office and my boss opened the safe deposit box where his money was locked away. Then my boss said, “If you still think saving for your first car is a bad idea, take your money back.”
My guy saw the light and left the money there 😭
Yesterday he pulled up in a GD6 bought for him by his company and said, “Thanks for forcing me to buy that Toyota RunX back in 2022.”
Sometimes you need friends who will tell you point blank when you’re about to do something stupid… not just “yes sir” friends worried about which bar you’re going to this weekend 😂
Anyway do you have crazy friends like that ?