i'm at a point in my life where I pray to keep meeting the right people. People who genuinely want the best for me, hold me in high regard, add value in my life, prioritize me and add peace to my life.
Warning signs that a person carries a bad spirit , negative energy or negative spiritual attachments 🧿✨
Bad skin 🧿
Hair wont grow 🧿
Soul-less look in the eyes 🧿
Always going through something karmic🧿
Constantly having freak accidents 🧿
Some people even have odor to them 🧿
Cant keep long term connections even with family 🧿
If your life starts to fall apart once they are around you, but things improve once you severe ties 🧿
Pay attention to there feet and hands also 🧿
You always have a weird feeling about them or things they say even if it doesnt make sense 🧿
They never take accountability they always make it seem like people are causing them harm or sending attacks 🧿
when you’re a woman with a nervous system that’s silken like honey, you will find yourself crying easily, laughing easily, expressing your displeasure easily. you will flow like a river, without holding anything in. letting it all out and letting it all go, keeping your aura pure
The most manipulative but effective thing I’ve ever done in my life was when I read an article about how children moderate their behavior to protect their self-identity, so if a child believes he’s smart, for example, he’ll intentionally study and try to do well to protect his image of himself.
Anyway, I would pull kids aside with behavioral issues at church and tell them, “David (obviously fake name), you’re such a kind person and such a good listener. I can see that in you. Thank you for always listening.” “Little Annie, thank you for taking such good care of the babies around you. You’re going to be such a good big sister. Can you be in charge of watching Sally?”
They would ALWAYS behave afterward. ALWAYS. Worked like a charm. Morally questionable because it wasn’t initially true, but I kind of willed it into existence. Tbf, I did think that they had that in them or I wouldn’t have tried.
Will publish longitudinal results of this method once my kid is old enough to report back.
I want a man who shows up for me every day, not just when it’s convenient. A man who still checks in even on his busiest days, who actually wants me around, listens when I speak, respects my thoughts, and enjoys my presence. Someone who provides, protects, and loves with clear intention. That’s my standard.
You need to move your energy everyday, not just your body. Shake your hips to release tension & stagnant emotions, deep stretch your body, tap & massage your major meridian points (down the inside of your arms, along the legs..), do deep diaphragmatic breathing exercises, and dance to alchemize your stress + grow your life force energy
I really have to be careful with the attention I give to men because my curiosity and ability to make people feel seen has given me stalkers, narcissists, & mimics who don’t value me as a person, but are obsessed with the way I love and how I make them feel. I’m too charming without even trying.
Girl to girl: be that girl again.
Get disciplined again. Take care of yourself again. Eat better & move your body again. Oil your edges & drink your water again. Start praying & reading your Bible again. Get your money up and sleep 8 hours again. Find your spark and put yourself first.
This is free advice from an expensive psychologist. If you’re an anxious person, do everything for fun. Go to a job interview for fun. Submit documents for fun. Start a blog for fun. Anxiety feeds on importance. Don’t make everything a matter of life and death.
Girl to girl: be that girl again.
Get disciplined again. Take care of yourself again. Eat better & move your body again. Oil your edges & drink your water again. Start praying & reading your Bible again. Get your money up and sleep 8 hours again. Find your spark and put yourself first.
woman to woman, explore your sensual tendencies, read books written by women who have lived entirely different lives than you have, know that the divine mother adores you, listen to the way your body wants to stretch, release every drop of shame from your body, live deliciously
Water signs
You left an impact, and nobody can take that away from you. Whether a connection lasted or ended, your presence changed something in that person's life. That's just who you are you leave pieces of wisdom, love, and growth behind wherever you go. Some people carry that as appreciation, while others turn it into resentment because they can't move on as easily as they pretend. Either way, your energy isn't easily forgotten. The love you gave was real, the lessons were real, and the mark you left was real. Don't let anyone rewrite the story or make you question your worth. What you brought to the table spoke for itself, and deep down, they know it too.