I can be the most understanding person, but I am not blind. Your repeated toxic behaviour will slowly drain my energy. Once I reach my limit, don't expect the same patience and understanding I once gave so freely. When I'm done. I'm done for real
im really at the age where i just ghost people for shit i don't fw i don't care to talk, elaborate or explain anything to anyone once i decide you're a person i no longer want with access to me, nothing about you concerns me.
Iโm so talked out, im not addressing anything anymore. The answers you want are always in peopleโs actions. I no longer want an explanation as to why people chose to be weird when it comes to me. Your actions were enough for me to realize youโre not who I THOUGHT you were. Thanks
I had a realization a few years ago that I don't need to figure out why this person is doing a certain behavior I dislike. All that matters is I know I don't like the behavior and I can leave
my side of the story doesn't matter anymore. Life happened. It hurt and I healed. Most importantly,I learned who deserves a seat at my table and who will never sit at it again
I started wondering why I always end up feeling so alone, even though I'm always there for everyone who needs me. I show up, listen, care, give pieces of myself just to help others hold themselves together. But when it's my turn to break, when I can't carry everything anymore, it feels like no one notices. I was only needed when I was strong enough to hold everyone else, but never when I needed someone to hold me too.
Becoming distant with everyone because one random day it hit me that people don't really care for me the way I care for them. Since then, Iโve slowly stopped giving so much of myself to people who would never do the same for me. It's exhausting loving people deeply and still feeling alone.
Unhealed men really DO repeat the same toxic patterns with every woman ๐ญ Same lies. Same cheating. Same inconsistency. Same emotional damage. Then swear โall women crazyโ whole time YOU the common denominator
The sexiest revenge is neverrrrrrrrrrrrrrr letting them have access to you again. Not out of bitterness, not to prove a point, but because some people only understand your value after they lose the privilege of reaching you. Let them remember the version of you they mishandled while you become someone they no longer qualify to touch.
If he wanted to understand your pain, he would stop doing the things that cause it. He doesn't need more time, more explanations, or more grace. He just needs to care, and he doesnโt.
The dirtiest manipulation during a breakup is when a person has already decided to leave u, but they are too much of a coward to take the first step. They are afraid to make that decision and take responsibility, so they intentionally create unbearable conditions for u. They provoke u into arguments, emotional instability, and push you to the point where the idea of ending the relationship comes from u. So that you are the one who does it, and the blame for destroying the relationship falls on u.