Everyone says a parent’s love is unconditional but I think it’s the other way round. A child’s love for their parent is actually the unconditional one. As a child, you can never have another parent, but your parents can definitely have other children.
I love how everyone is talking about their mom’s and nobody is dragging them but the moment somebody comes out to talk about their father, males will remember it’s wrong to air your family matter in public.
Gentle Parenting is HARD.
it’s hard to be regulated emotionally, to be in a constant state of peace, to never get frustrated or get angry no matter what.
it is hard to say the same thing again and again and again until it’s understood by the child.
it’s hard to explain in details why things are wrong, why actions have consequences.
Majority do not have the patience, intelligence, and healthy emotional baseline to be gentle parents.
it’s easier to slap someone over every little mistake.
what is difficult is communication, teaching them, and the lesson sinking into their psyche.
Omo this way of "discipline" is thesame things those senior bullies in boarding house learnt and tried with junior ones. That is why some of them strongly believe they were not wrong.
Nothing concern me with gentle parenting iberibe. I will be a loving mother but I will handle my children with an iron fist 🙏🏽
If they fuck around, they will find out fr
there was a boy at my last placement. My baby Asher. the other teachers said they couldn’t get him to do anything, he wasn’t responsive etc. 3 year old.
by the end of my first day w him he tried to follow me home.
none of them could understand him enough to communicate effectively, but I did.
I got him to write, to color, to participate with other kids, to feed himself even.
it was a tough job but I did it. not everyone is willing to come down to a child’s level of understanding.
Get as your parents go take beat you, mehn, make I shut up.
Guy, do you know the level of anger and rage it requires to vigorously pound a 12year old with a wooden rolling pin? 😂😂
Something about Nigerian parents expecting a deep emotional bond when you’re older meanwhile all they did while you were younger was insult and physically abuse you
You’re surprised that I recoil at your touch when you hug me and I never come home but you used to beat me
The problem with a lot of you is that you want feminism to be a tool for men to be good enough so you can date them without guilt. Feminism is not about men, it’s about women’s liberation. Be better and do better for yourself.