I'm not toxic. I'm reactive. There's a person somewhere calling me difficult, and they're leaving out the part where they pushed every boundary I set, ignored every signal I gave, and then acted shocked when I finally stopped being gentle about it.
how many times does someone have to let u down before u realize that they're not acting out of character? that IS their character. not caring about ur feelings or how much u genuinely care about them? that's who they are. leave em alone.