@eristocratt made me comfortable, labelling yourself isn't something you should do to appease others nor should you make that label something others expect from you. it should be what makes you feel confident and happy not something that makes you feel boxed in or uncomfortable
@eristocratt you don't have to ever put a label on your gender my love, it's not for anyone but you. if i were basing my gender off of what other people expected or wanted me to be i'd still be a cis girl but i'm not. not because anyone told me they thought i'm a boy but because it's what
@eristocratt no not really! i mean honestly i am happy with what makes you feel comfortable and confident i dont really have any preferences other than that. i think longer hair looks nice on you ive always liked longer-ish hair but genuinely what matters to me most is how you feel
@eristocratt yesyes well theres plenty of time to try things out and if you do grow it out and get it to a point you like then its certainly easier to maintain than super short hair because you can also trim it yourself
@eristocratt i mean i think the itchiness is just about taking care of it properly as well because even if you dont feel it being itchy on your skin i can still feel it when it is ykwim
@eristocratt i think the curliness in your hair when its longer is adorable, i can teach you how to take care of it but it would probably be easier when we live together because i already take very good care of my hair and plan to when it gets curly as well
@eristocratt id love to see you with your hair more grown out again if youd like that but i know its a commitment EHEHA i feel like longer hair is easier to style its just difficult in between
@eristocratt the masculine being slightly higher just comes from me accidentally being assertive about facts and whatnot and then the feminine is the fact that when i realize i came off forceful or made someone upset i backtrack really quickly