stalking her spotify playlists on the desktop version and looking at each date a song was added and cross referencing it with my own perceived timeline of events then analyzing the data and making assumptions that are probably incorrect because idk i have a lot of issues
Do not trust your future self to do a task if you are not going to be able to do it today. You will always wish you had done it earlier. You may think postponing a task physically leaves you free for that moment or prevents you from having to deal with it, but it weighs in your head and it prevents you from one hundred percent enjoying any other thing as well. You will spend more energy trying to get the thought out of your head than it will take to actually complete the task. An unfinished task is a tax on your leisure and entertainment and peace.