Now that youโre an adult,
I hope you now understand your parents when they told you they had no money.
Life is cyclical. eventually, it becomes your turn.
You miss one hundred percent of all the chances you donโt take.
But you can still take all the chances and still very much fail all of them.
Good thing is, you took all the chances. All you need to win is just one percent.
If you ever feel that lying to a woman is beneath you that you'd be brutally honest.
You'll
- always fight with them
- have them bruising your ego
- never get what you want from them
- likely risk them falling for temptations
Lying should be easy.
Learn or you'll lose ๐ซต๐พ
Always lie to your woman when you notice she's insecure about herself.
It boasts their self worth and makes them grow to love themselves.
Their minds are always fickle and they thrive on your validation.
- pregnancy
- weigh loss
- fashion growth etc
Learn or you'll lose ๐ซต๐พ
Mistakes men make when their wives withhold sex
- begging her for sex
- handling her duties for sex
- allowing her to dictate when the sex happens
- spending money to get her to change her mind, etc
Don't do that
She needs a co-wife.
Or she's tired
Learn or you'll lose ๐ซต๐พ
Ladies,
The following folks do not care about your well-being as much as you think:
- divorced women
- older single women
- older single women giving advice on the internet
- male feminists
- feminists
- female therapists
You can find out.
Learn or you'll lose ๐ซต๐พ
Funny enough, many people swearing they'll not marry a retired prostitute on this app, will marry Non-virgins.
They think the hoes and whores are those living in brothels or those boldly posting nudity and raunchy media online.
What many don't know is, there's no semi-virgin, or girl "weh no too spoil". It is either a virgin or a whore.
-The girl they're currently dating;
-that lady, whose pity story they listen to;
-that girl that told them they have ONLY ONE ex; etc are all whores! And they'll end up being married.
Men can disagree and swear it can NEVER be them all they want, but how many girls from 25 and above are virgins? 1/10? 2/10?.
But there weddings every Saturday, meaning the remaining 9/10 and 8/10 are getting married regardless of their whoredom.
The fact that sexual rascality is prevalent and rife does not mean I'll agree with Agba to wife them. However, reality is BRUTAL! There's a difference between REALITY and WISHES. Men in society at large will continue to marry prostitutes.
As an individual, the onus is on you to REFUSE to accept an expired package. But you MUST know, the search for a virgin is Painful, LONG and requires EXTREME discipline. Infact, you might have to adopt the @neo_officialll method and groom them from 17 (without being sexually involved) until they come of marital age.
But to leave the search to chance and expect to see a virgin at 25 in this 2026 upwards is to tell oneself a bold-face lie. The truth is you'll most likely marry a tired prostitute who has f**ked a thousand men and swallowed their scrotal juice especially if you're already 30 as a man.
For this not to happen to you, TAKE INTENTIONAL STEPS TODAY and be BRUTAL online and offline.
Some of you young girls don't even know that you're a walking red flag.
You'll be going to see your boyfriend, you'll beg him for tfare, wash your toto and do make up.
Then you visit him empty handed.
Common fruits you cannot buy for him.
Your only value is sex.
Then when you're leaving, you'd expect him to give you money and buy something for your friends, siblings or mother.
If he doesn't give you, you'll go and cheat with another man.
Your audacity and greed is so loud.
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Let me repeat.
Your serious girlfriend is supposed to sacrifice and invest in you, while you sacrifice and invest in the future of both of you.
That's you leading from the front.
And her leading from the back.
If you have a woman like that, do all you can to marry her.
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Let me repeat.
If you break up with your bf, & he's aware that you are now with another man.
Please do not go back to him, no matter what he says.
Men do not like the fact that another man has slept with you.
He's mostly coming back because he wants to destroy you.
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The final stage of a whore is no longer a religious woman.
It is rather a PICK ME old hag on Social Media agreeing with everything men say and teaching them "Bro Code."
Learn or learn the hard way.
This may sound like an endorsement, but whether I say it or not, it happens.
Yesterday, I shared the conversation that I had with that 22-year-old woman..
And I didn't condemn or judge the fact that she's sleeping with a man over 60 for survival. It was obvious why I didn't do that.
But here is what I want you young girls that may be in similar situations to know.
If you meet much older men who, instead of just being kind or generous to you, he decides that he wants to be sleeping with you in exchange for your education.
That man has the right to demand that you must be faithful to him, even if he's married.
If you value your education, & you know that he is keeping up with his side of the bargain, please stay faithful to him.
He most likely is demanding that because he wants to be sleeping with you unprotected, as he doesn't want to bring any STIs or STDs to his wife.
He doesn't want to marry you. And certainly, he most likely doesn't want any child from you.
So be sensible.
Get what you want from him, and break free when you do.
That's the price you'd have to pay for your choice to be with him in exchange for your survival.
Remember, if he finds out that you have been unfaithful, he most likely would stop assisting you, and stop seeing you too.
This means that you'd start to look for another sponsor, and then you keep messing around, which is not good for you..
I just said I should let you all know.
Because everyone knows what they're doing.
Lastly, keep such relationship as discrete as possible. No one has to know what you're doing to sustain yourself in school.
The walls have ears, and the world is small.
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"If my wife doesn't want to allow me have sex, I'll get it from outside".
Let me tell you.
It's better for you to be the provider & your wife denies you sex.
Than for her to be feeding you, & denies you.
The former would serve as your justification to cheat.
The latter would serve as her justification to cheat.
Provision is a man's shield.
End.
"When a husband does something right, he praises his wife.
But when he does something wrong, he blames himself.
When a wife does something right, she praises herself.
But when she does something wrong, she blames her man."
- Jon Doe
Remarkable!
Learn or learn the hard way
I moved out of my father's house before I turned 26 after NYSC.
About 1 year after that, I took my first car to him to bless me.
Few months after that, I invited him to come bless my new apartment.
Few months after that, I told him that I was ready to marry my lovely wife.
I married my wife 3 years after I moved out of my parents' home.
The only time that my father gave me money after university, was when he sold one of his landed properties.
He said that it was my share from the proceeds.
I never called him to beg or ask for his financial assistance.
Rather, I was calling for blessings, advice & honor.
I don't know how to steal or deceive people to make financial gains off them.
My parents never taught me that, and never endorsed such.
I mean...
My father was so open financially.
We the children knew his source of livelihood.
So I could not afford to tow a different path.
Even in death, my late father is still better than me in all ramifications.
And he wasn't a university graduate.
His name still open doors for us his children.
And right from his grave, he still sends me money, 10 years after his death.
If I come here to say that I frown deeply at illegitimate earnings, I was brought up that way.
I don't know how to do it, because I know that it's not right.
If your father or mother frowns at illegitimate ways of living, the least you can do, is to uphold their beliefs and live right by them.
You don't have to be rich.
But you'll have peace.
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Most women are not eternally grateful.
They're only grateful for the moment.
If you're doing anything for them, do it because you feel like doing it.
Not because you hope that it would be reciprocated, when you need them.
Especially if you're sleeping with her.
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Asides cheating, genotype compatibility, or tribal differences.
Another reason why some of you are still single, is because some religious leaders have made it so.
Until you stop going to them for whatever prophecies on your relationship life, you'll continue to be miserable.
Do your vetting by yourself.
The only persons that can stop both of you from getting married to your choice, are your parents.
But if your parents delegate that God give role to any religious leader, prophet, Alpha, spiritualists or herbalist.
It's unfortunate for you.
Only God can ordain your marriage.
Not a religious leader.
Unless the religious leader is your parent.
And only your parents can bless your marriage.
Because God has given them that authority.
You cannot sacrifice, and build with someone for years, & none of you have done anything to warrant your break up.
Then, one so called religious leader or seer or Alpha, will now tell you, or your parents, that both of you are not compatible.
Do not allow these people ruin your happiness.
Date right, and with all sincerity of purpose.
And commit your decisions and future in the hands of God.
Through the blessings of your parents.
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You can be anything in life & do anything in life, but one thing that you must never do, is to steal from another man.
Everyone loves money, because we need it to get by, daily.
If you deprive another man & his innocent children of his legitimate sweat, you have crossed the red line.
You cannot escape the consequences of it.
And unfortunately, your innocent children will have to suffer too.
You may have gotten rich by stealing, but you'll lack peace of mind.
Gradually, all that you have stolen will start to vanish.
I am not a saint, neither am I a religious leader.
But I have lived long enough to know that this is true for the most part.
Remove your hands from stealing other people's sweat.
It kills your spirit.
It destroys you and your loved ones.
It will make your life miserable, & you'll wish to die, but death may not come as quickly as you would wish.
The old saying that... "a good name is better than riches" can never be outdated.
Take the harder right, than the easier wrong. Stop indulging in stealing and anything fetish.
And free your conscience from that guilt.
End.