okay I take it back I’ve decided I want to have an absolute crushing soul-destroying three-month situationship again so I can really crash out to the new olivia rodrigo album the way god intended
Love Island is so good because it shows you how mentally exhausting situationships are. You think you’re avoiding something by not calling a relationship a relationship but you’re actually getting all the embarrassment of vulnerability with no real accountability
normalize giving up on people. no more seeing the best in them, no more excusing their behavior. accept them as they are and reject them. If they wanted to appreciate you, they would have already.