Stephanie

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[Stephanie @Stephpf]

@CoyJandreau Yeah, can confirm, he's still here signing. All of the tech crew has to stay until the room and stage is clear. 🙃

[Stephanie @Stephpf]

I finally started a substack. Decades in the making. Come play. https://t.co/0CHevmCJvl

[Stephanie @Stephpf]

My high school Spanish teacher just added me on LinkedIn. The future is a weird place.

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@natabasso Also curious if there's room in this model for group work or if educational paths become too hyper individualized.

How do students actually learn collaboration, problem solving, etc?

[Stephanie @Stephpf]

@natabasso I wonder why have "wellness guides" specialize? What does the wellness guide: student interaction look like?

I think the more we start to rely on tech for education, the more important close personal relationships including an adult mentor/ coach/ guide will be.

[Stephanie @Stephpf]

@DrMarinaHarris Replacing judgement with compassionate curiosity.

[Stephanie @Stephpf]

@jonnym1ller I'm in the middle of writing something about exactly this now! Will also check out some of these recs. Great question as always!

[Stephanie @Stephpf]

@VincentBriere @jonnym1ller I finally got a therapist who intentionally works to have a regulated mind & nervous system because it affects the people around her. The difference between how I felt in her room vs past therapists was staggering.

Then I realized my self regulation could have that effect too🤯

[Stephanie @Stephpf]

@HippyMomPhD Important to me to be specific here bc this oversimplification causes some adults to not be able to grasp why they have insecure attachment. They get stuck
1. Confused or in denial bc they know their parents loved them.
2. Feeling shame for "blaming" parents who did their best.

[Stephanie @Stephpf]

@HippyMomPhD Totally agree.
However, parents can love their children but still not be totally attuned to them or emotionally mature themselves, which can lead to lead to insecure attachment in those children >> adults. Love doesn't always equal secure attachment.

[Stephanie @Stephpf]

@andruyeung Some way to filter or gauge interests/compatibility upfront.

Let me know if you want help producing!

[Stephanie @Stephpf]

@andruyeung @GlennonDoyle so we can talk about the messy middle

[Stephanie @Stephpf]

@ceciliaclyra House of Cards and why I never got past episode 1. But that might have just been me. 😅

[Stephanie @Stephpf]

@anafabrega11 100%. Taking risks, moving on, & trusting yourself requires a level of self trust and confidence built by
1. feeling safe.
2. encouraging adults who don't place the value of your worth on whether you succeed.
3. actually taking risks over & over & finding out you don't die.

[Stephanie @Stephpf]

@LifespanDevelop This has always caused a weird hitch in my brain. If I'm trying to fall asleep and end up thinking about what it feels like to fall asleep or be asleep, or what I'll be conscious of next, my brain kind of freaks out and I can't go to sleep unless I think about something else.

[Stephanie @Stephpf]

@HippyMomPhD The moment I realized that some of my back and forth (intense empathy <> discomfort) with children was based on my own complicated relationship with my inner child was the moment that changed everything. "You are me" really resonates.

[Stephanie @Stephpf]

@ErwinvDeut @jonnym1ller It's usually based on your attachment style which is developed in childhood. I'd be happy to talk it out with you. I'm building a coaching business specifically for this work since I had a similar pattern and worked through it with several therapists. Feel free to DM!

[Stephanie @Stephpf]

@MacGraeme42 @anammostarac Even things that start as the latter often turn into the former as soon as people who want control and/or money get ahold of a well-intentioned idea.

[Stephanie @Stephpf]

@carolinejtrulit Sitting down with a notebook & pen instead of my computer helps me. I often kickstart myself by taking the notebook into a public place & just writing what I observe. I find if there's just ONE phrase or image with some magic in it, the tap is back on. Sometimes. 🙃