No be say life show us pepper. We just reached the stage where protecting our peace became more attractive than chasing butterflies. Relationship? Closed. “Hello baby?” Network unavailable. And yes, una contribute well well.
We didn’t quit love because we couldn’t handle pain. We quit because experience taught us that not every emotional investment deserves another deposit. So if “hello baby” no dey again, check the market history… some of una crashed the economy.
It’s never about “going through a lot.” It’s about recognizing a pattern and refusing to become a recurring episode. Relationships? Retired. “Hello baby?” Expired. The architects know themselves.
Wife knew she had multiple fibroids and PCOS before getting married.
She never told her husband.
For six years, whenever they had a quarrel, she'd call him impotent and mock him for not being able to get her pregnant.
Unknown to him, she was secretly going for treatment.
One day, he saw one of her scan and test results, snapped it, and sent it to a medical friend.
That's when he found out she'd been hiding her condition all along.
He kept quiet.
During their last quarrel, she called him impotent again.
He laughed and told her another woman was already pregnant for him and that she should start counting her days in his house.
If I hop on the “life didn’t end when…” trend. Note go too full and till now life still never end.
With the way life dey always go on, I no sure sey rapture real. Life no go ever end unless you die or dem kill you until then alua continua!!!
Let me say this here. You can’t date an extremely smart person and be at peace. So when you say, you want an intelligent man, i hope you can handle those perks especially when you are not a sincere idiot.
What happens when you die:
They divide up your shit.
They summarize your life in 500-1000 words.
People who knew you less say sorry to people who knew you more.
Everyone eats, drives home, and wakes up the next day and goes to work.
Whatever you’re worried about won’t be in those 500 words.
You can dare greatly or not at all, but you’re gonna die either way.
Might as well squeeze every motherfucking drop out.
The household your partner grew up in is the blueprint they will bring into your relationship. People subconsciously repeat what they grow up seeing.
Marry from a good home.
Every man has a season where nothing works. The ones who win are the ones who refuse to change their identity during the drought. Stay who you are. The rain comes back.