This story isn't romantic, but I learned that this is how a matured relationship goes. Everything feel like peace, even at our lowest point. No swear, no curse, no torture, no angry text, no blame, no crying hard. All served with calmness.
I hope we can be together, ever.
Just 5 days ago, me & my bf were arguing about how much we put “attention” into the relationship. Lately, we realized that we’ve been separating our world so far. He got his own thing, either did i.
After discussing in person, we’ve agreeing some what to do and what don’t.
And till this day, e’re back into the cute couple as we used to. Suddenly our world isn’t that far anymore. I can feel the love’s increasing each day. We’re being love birds as I once dreamed.
Just 5 days ago, me & my bf were arguing about how much we put “attention” into the relationship. Lately, we realized that we’ve been separating our world so far. He got his own thing, either did i.
“your answer will determine whether we shud continue this relationship or not”. So, i need to be as honest as i have so he’d understand my concern, and deciding whether i’m too burden for him or the relationship style doesn’t suit him, etc.
Hal-hal yang terlihat seperti cinta:
1. Sleepcall
2. Fast respon
3. Long text
4. Kirim makan/minuman
5. Obsesi
6. Kado dan uang
Hal-hal yang sebenarnya cinta itu:
1. Respect
2. Support
3. Kepercayaan
4. Validasi
5. Komitmen
6. Memaafkan
7. Toleransi
8. Komunikasi
No & i'd not to. 9-5 dia kerja depan laptop & depan orang2 yang bikin dia merasa tidak secure. At home, I'd prioritize himself setelah sampai rumah ngelakuin hobinya sendiri to refresh his mind
Almost a year with my bf & never a single time "putus" came out from my mouth nor his. Semoga gw dan pacar gw gapernah jadi orang yg gampang blg putus cm karena minta validasi kalau we're valued to be fought for