You're not an ATM for anyone's convenience.
If they say they love you & are constantly making withdrawals from your energy, they need to also make deposits. Periodt.
Things I don't debate with men:
• Abortion
• Breastfeeding
• Menstruation
• Female body hair
• Birth control
• Access to menstrual products
Why? Because none of these involve the male body.
If you’re a woman who likes to talk and express herself, find a man who loves to listen and who is emotionally and mentally capable of understanding you.
Woman are reciprocators. Not initiators. You lead, she follows. You put in effort, she returns it. You make her feel good, she mirrors it. That's the only
way it works.
Some men will carry you when your feet hurt... and some will just stand there like,
“I warned you about those heels.”
“Choose the one who lifts you... not the one who lectures you."
A lot of men say they want a woman who'll bring them peace, but the question is, do you bring her peace too, or do you come with chaos and expect peace in return? Do you act immature, manipulate her, and expect no blowback?
Acting terribly without getting called out isn’t peace.
I actually don't want to climb any corporate ladders. I don't care about job titles. I don't need accolades.
I just want to have income to fund my lifestyle, not be depressed, help other people, and be around good humans.
This girl said, “When I lost my spark nobody noticed, because I was still showing up for others. The only way I regained my spark was by isolating myself and limiting how I gave out my resources. People noticed that though.” And that’s really how it be