if i hadn’t lost what i did this year, i would’ve stayed exactly where i was, doing the same shit. i wouldn’t have learned or experienced anything new all bc of fear that things changing would cause a loss of stability. but change & growth require letting go. they require loss
The reality is you may meet someone who would be highly compatible once they leveled up to their more evolved version of self. But they will still choose to pursue someone who is more of a match to their lower self instead of doing the work to level up. Don’t take this personally