Yall think being mean and being racist are the same thing and they’re not. I have yet to see a single law, housing policy, hiring practice pattern, bank lending practice, education access policy, etc put in place by Black ppl to systemically disenfranchise other races.
i don’t accept “playful” jabs with people i actually like anymore. in my experience, it’s eventually revealed they feel that and want to humble and/or hurt me.