bell hooks saved me from the confusion surrounding what love is. she taught me that no matter who someone is, if they hurt you intentionally they cannot possibly love you and it was hard to digest that but it stopped me from accepting abuse in my close relationships.
I'm naturally a loner. Even towards my own family. I don't care to be in someone's face. I'm clingy when I love someone, but the distance I can give a person is unreal.
To be truly not racist is to be constantly anti-racist. All white people are racist by default. It takes work to unlearn white supremacy and to learn anti-racist behaviors. But many people care more about not being called racist than actually not being racist.
i feel like if u wanna know what or how i’m doing… just call or text me. you don’t have to ask around,, at all. bc i bet you nobody knows. it’s not that serious lol