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F44 • a MOM with one son
I post random things randomly

[L! @suarahujan22]

AGING GRACEFULLY at 40 means making peace with what is.. It's never too late to start living more fully, loving more deeply, or dreaming more boldy..

Haiii.. ☺️☺️ Jangan remehkan emak2 berdaster, karena ketika kami bekerja, kita bisa jadi ”superwoman”.. 😎😎

[L! @suarahujan22]

Terulang lagi kan.. 🥴🥴
Memaklumi kaki kita terinjak high heels atau wedges mbak2 di KRL adalah sebagian dari iman.. 😩🙏🏻

[L! @suarahujan22]

Dia blm jadi pendengar yg baik..

Tapi dgn gak ngejudge dan bisa ngasih liat sudut pandang yg objektif..

Thank you.. 😉😉

[L! @suarahujan22]

Menyadari diperpanjang umur oleh Tuhan karena ada tanggung jawab (mama dan anak) yg memaknai kehidupan gw..

Walaupun badan gw udah mulai cepat lelah dan fikiran udah gak lagi setajam dulu.. 😇😇

[L! @suarahujan22]

Tetap nyapu rumah.. 💁🏻‍♀️💁🏻‍♀️
Walaupun kdg mama suka gak percaya kalau rmh udah di sapu.. 😫😫

[L! @suarahujan22]

Motherhood is HARD..
I think almost most of the mom have this trauma but sad that they can't tell anyone as no one will understand..

Also people near to us only don't care about us sometimes when we are in this stage..

[L! @suarahujan22]

Not out of cruelty, but because of the raw emotional power and biological instincts that come alive when trust is broken or infidelity is even suspected..

[L! @suarahujan22]

The most dangerous man in every woman's life is a HUSBAND..

Why a husband??..
”The person who loves you the most can also become the most dangerous”..

Statistically, poses the greatest risk to a woman' safety.. 💁🏻‍♀️💁🏻‍♀️

[猫 kucing @oakucing]

waspada sama siapapun itu perlu, entah laki" atau perempuan. mengkritik patriarki sah" aja, tapi bukan berarti semua laki" otomatis berbahaya dan harus dihindari cuma karena mereka lakilaki

[L! @suarahujan22]

The problem isn't sex..
It's individual behavior..

Broad gender blame ignores context, motivation, and individual choice.. Responsibility belongs to individuals, not to an entire sex..

[L! @suarahujan22]

I'm vehemently opposed to the ”all men” rhetoric.. It's a pointless generalization, because it sweeps away too broadly and the things people hope to achieve by using such generalizations are probably not being achieved.. Making it baseless and counter-productive..

[L! @suarahujan22]

Failing to distinguish correlation from causation is a basic logical error..

This is why the entire rhetorical framework of concepts like ”patriarchy” or ”always a man” is simply not true..

[L! @suarahujan22]

Being MALE is correlated with committing violence, but it's not a cause..

If it were a causal factor, violence rates would be massively higher and broadly distributed across the entire male population, which is not the case..

[L! @suarahujan22]

Rape is a violent crime..
Why do you think men should be oke with it??.. That is kind of sick..

As a man, my male friends HATE rapist and they'll punch him in the face..

[🦢 @loungingmee]

I wish men hated rapists as much as they hate feminists

[L! @suarahujan22]

Misandry give you just enough ”rope” to hang yourself.. Very few will actually carry out the deed themselves, so they don't have to take accountability..

But the fact is that is DOES have a downstream effect..

[L! @suarahujan22]

Hateful articles stories books, etc. Basically anything that puts men in a negative generalization while men are the victims..

Misandry is also women laughing at men/boys who get raped, sexual assults or abused, calling men ”incel”, downplay or completely ignore men's problem..

[L! @suarahujan22]

MISANDRY -- is direct threats, direct false accusations, direct blanket statement of negative generalizations about MEN..

The abuse women do to men, the constant manipulation, the overwhelming emotional psychological mental and physical abuse towards men..

[L! @suarahujan22]

”Misogyny is the extent of female on male violence”..

Tell that to the guy who got kidnapped, burned, tortured, etc..

[L! @suarahujan22]

”You said misandry kills just as much, so why isn't this happening every 1 minute??”..

It likely does but it's under reported as male victims are more likely to be shamed than female victims..

[L! @suarahujan22]

Misogyny is a ”bear” that attack you in the open.. 🐻🐻

Misandry is a ”snake” bitting you from concealment.. 🐍🐍

Misogyny has been here for centuries, so 10 years of misandry would NEVER equal to what misogyny has done..

[L! @suarahujan22]

”Whats the worst misandry can do??”..

Any form of HATE can bring terrible things..

[L! @suarahujan22]

That men and boys are always the primary targets for genocides

Also male victims of domestic abuse is under reported.. BBC said male domestic abuse victims ”suffering in silence”..

All of that is just ”hurt feeling”..

[L! @suarahujan22]

• Boys are the primary victims of violent child abuse including infanticide

• Male genital mutilation

• The open anti-male discrimination in our public education system

• The neglect of male health

[nasikepal🍚;; @togerwolf]

@suarahujan22 Ttp aja kak g menjawab persentase yg kakak sebutkan itu krn misandri

[L! @suarahujan22]

The fact that men are the BY FAR the largest demographic of victims of violence

The fact that black men and boys are and always have been seen and treated as sub-human..

Male routinely subjected to false accussations and no one seems to have issues with it..