Because God will literally pull you out some things you shouldn’t have survived, when you didn’t know how you were gonna make something happen but did, when you cried yourself to sleep but woke up feeling comforted or at peace???
Literally nothing God can’t do
Don't teach your partner how to be your partner, Don't ask them to block people, Don't ask them not to be friendly with others, Don't ask them for attention.
If they truly love and respected you they'd do it all on their own.