I caught my husband asking my sister for just one round at 1:00 a.m.
I thought the problem was what he was asking for.
Then I heard my sister say:
“Are you sure she won’t find out?”
My stomach dropped.
I stood outside the guest room, completely frozen.
My husband had been sleeping beside me every night.
My sister had been staying with us for three weeks after losing her job and needing somewhere to stay.
And now, at 1:00 a.m., I was hearing this.
My husband lowered his voice.
“Please. Just one round. I’ll pay you back next Friday.”
My sister sighed.
“You said that last time.”
I almost opened the door.
Instead, I pulled out my phone and started recording.
My husband continued.
Just called my husband and he answered “Hi Tash, how are you?!” which is code for “you’re on loud speaker, someone from work is with me so please don’t do your dog, Australian or Irish voice.”
HR: You were caught using your personal phone during work hours five times this week.
Me: Correct.
HR: That means you’ve lost 10% of your monthly performance bonus.
Me: Understood.
HR: The policy is clear. Personal phone use isn’t allowed during work hours.
Me: I understand.
HR: Good. We don’t want this becoming a habit.
Me: It won’t.
Three weeks later, the company’s Wi-Fi went down.
Manager: IT says it could take a few hours. Can you turn on your hotspot for the conference room?
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